
Yesterday my kids and I drove down to Provo to surprise my second SAHM! My sister-in-law, Holly, and her 3 youngest kids came with us! We spent some time walking around the mall. It was pretty empty and everyone seemed to be eating lunch! We spotted a mom cleaning up her food and approached her to tell her about what we were doing. Unfortunately she was leaving to drop her daughter off at pre-school. We spotted another mom who was actually going to pick up her daughter at school. We decided to go scope out the kids play area. Our kids started to play and we saw Karla. She was sitting nursing her little baby. We knew she was the one! As a mom of two, I know what it’s like to have a new baby and NOT have any clothes that fit! It sucks! So…we were off to surprise her!
You know it’s funny, it’s hard searching for a mom, but when I find the one who is being rewarded, I just know she is the one! So off she went to go shopping….
This is Karla!

Showing off her new outfit! She also got a gorgeous skirt for her hubby’s work Christmas party! and like she says below, was able to get a pair of shoes the next day!

Hi Melissa,
I wanted to thank you again for the wonderful act of kindness you have performed. I got home and called all my family and friends to tell them about it. I couldn’t help to think how blessed I am for this wonderful project. I hope others feel as blessed and favored as I have!
Just a little bit about me, I am a stay at home mom, with 4 girls. My oldest being 6 yrs and in 1st grade. I have twins who are 4 and then a new baby who was born a few days before Halloween. My life has been very eventful and exciting. Although I love being a mom and wouldn’t trade it for anything, it is sometimes so hard I wonder if I am doing any good. Like you I only wanted to be a mom when I grew up, and that is what I got. I have very rewarding days where the girls will tell me they like me the best and then those days where the one girl has colored her face and arms with a permanent marker while the other one has smeared butter on the computer mouse and desk after finishing trying to butter her toast by herself. All I can do is to just laugh to keep from crying… and know it really be funny another day.
On Wednesday, I had to take my car into the shop with my three youngest girls. They gave me a loaner car, but of course switching over all the car seats was a nightmare. I thought while we are out I will go get some baby pictures of out little 6 week old baby. Again, another disappointment, the waiting was long and then baby got hungry and wouldn’t cooperate. So I went to feed her and then went back and she still wasn’t real happy because she was too tired… and then it was time for her to eat again. I thought we would go to the play area for a little break. That is when I was surprised with the project SAHM and was offered $150 to go shopping.
It was so nice to shop for myself! I told myself, this is my turn and I deserve it! I found it weird shopping for myself, but delightful. I haven’t shopped for myself for so long I didn’t even know what size to go for. Last time I bought something for myself was a pair of jeans before I was pregnant and I got them at Savers trying to save a few bucks. (Nice jeans but you see where my priorities where.) I was able to get a pair of jeans, a button up shirt, and a t-shirt to go under the button up shirt. I ran out of time to get much more, and also trying to be thrifty as a mom does. With the remaining money I went out the next day to buy a pair of much needed dress shoes (my husband has been hating the flip flops I call my dress shoes) and some earrings and a necklace too.
What a wonderful treat! Thanks again for doing this. I know I will definitely get the word out on this wonderful project. I know as moms, we need to take time for ourselves too. It just seems it is in the 25th hour of the day that never comes. I often feel guilty if I tell the girls NO we can’t do that because I need to do something for myself. It breaks my heart when I tell them they can’t go to the store or run a simple errand with me and I am trying to be quick and yet also really need a little breather. This was a real treat. I will very much enjoy wearing my new clothes (especially to my husband’s work party) and think of you who I have to thank it all for. Hopefully I can balance things better and give myself more of the time and attention I need for myself. Thanks for it all!
Thanks again for making my year!!
Karla Hayes